I, (Mr Groom) take you (Mrs. Bride), to be my (wife), to love and to hold from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part. And people will chorus a big AMEN!!!
Over the year many men have recited marriage vows during their wedding ceremonies but looking at the rate of infidelity today, I wonder how many men keep it.
Here are some reasons most married men cheat.
1. Good sex: Men are sex animals, even if they try to deny it. A man loves any woman that can give him good sex. Psychologists say that the first time a man cheats is always a mistake, but he will keep going back if he gets something that stimulates his excitement, and sex is one of those stimulators. Wives should endeavour to satisfy their husbands in bed.I agree that there are some boring men, the solution is to lovingly teach them or gently take the lead. Be creative in bed. If he likes porn, please watch it with him.
2. Emotional Needs: All marriage relationships started as friendships but everybody quickly enters into the marriage role, leaving their friendship behind at the altar.Friendship among couples builds emotional connection that fills a psychological void in any man.Men are like babies they want attention always and they do not mind where they get it from.
3. Nagging: Even the bible says it is better to leave on the roof of a house than stay with a nagging wife. Men tend to look for companionship that will make them forget their sorrows at home and that could lead to an affair.Madam stop nagging.
4. Appreciation: Always appreciate your man.Pay him compliments.Learn what fuelshis ego and pump it.He will always remember you if you do.Praise him,calll him those pet names that he likes.If you always criticise him, you are pushing him into the hands of another woman who knows how to use enticing words to keep him.Most of the time it is not juju.It is the sweet words and compliments he gets that makes him go there always.
To be fore-warned is to be fore-armed.
